Re: Is it wrong to wait for love?
Deeba,
See your quoted post below. I’m having difficulty quoting properly from mob.
**i think you have misread people’s views. What most are saying is it’s impossible to feel “love” in the first or second meeting but it requires a couple to experience life’s good and bad together which may or may not be before / after marriage. **Nobody said physical attraction is unimportant. Offcourse one has to be satisfied how they feel about someone physically but they may not notice or “feel” & should not expect to notice / feel anything in the first meeting. But if a couple has a history together, that means they already are in a relationship whether or not they lived together under one roof as a couple. So when there is a history, there will naturally be attachment / bond between them making them decide to marry eachother. But here the OP is looking for that attachment/bond/love in the first meeting especially when there is dissatisfaction about physical appearance.
Agree with you here but is it possible to keep it halal though if it takes more than a couple meetings? I just feel like it’s time wasted if there doesn’t seem like a connection.