is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors?

or extremely beautiful,they can get rishtas in their family but otherwise every family is looking for a doctor!!

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

no. doctors find it equally difficult to find a rishta...

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

I don't think so. Girls just have to be educated or at least striving academically - doesn't matter if they're doctors or not. But if you're planning on marrying someone in the East, know that beauty is definitely a considerable factor. The world is full of aesthetic freaks. Get over it.

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people keep getting married with their cousins...but i did notice that a few of my friends are in medical school and not to sound bad,not vey good looking..weight problems...stuff...and they are already engaged and married,whereas in the bba girls no one seems to be getting commited...one has to agree that nowadays their is a craze for families to find a doctor if their not marrying inside the familly,so they can tell their relatives that she's a doctor.

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bba? what use is a bba degree, as opposed to a medical doctor degree? you have to pretty much work hard from the bottom up to be anywhere with a bba. so yes, if education and employability is important for the spouse, this is no surprise.

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Where did you even get this idea? In the west there is absolutely no difference between doctor or not doctor. It's all about your success in whatever you chose to do. In the east it is all about family background and looks.

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Haseen laRkiyoN ke liye koii kamii nahiiN laRkoN kii magar bad-shakl laRkoN ke liye paisoN kii faraavaanii [big bank balance] hii waaHid quality hai Haseen laRkiyaaN Haasil karne ke liye. :)

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

Girls find it hard because of sometimes ridicolous expectations.

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

Yes, yes it is. Get thee to a medical school.

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

this is the first time i am hearing this .... i dont even know a single person/family who wants a doctor .....

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which world do you live in? :D

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

Real world... not fictional like yours where haseen larkiya gets good rishtay .... & bad soorat larke can only get married if they have "big bank balance" ......

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really? real world must be very small then! :smiley:

gimme some advice then:

how can a highly educated, well placed bad-soorat man get a beautiful girl like Katrina, the cat? :hmmm:

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

^ you tell me how many of pakistani girls actually end up completing their doctor degree ? All the girls I know who were doing medical in college ended up doing something else but not "daactaarriii"

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Unless you're a surgeon then you're perhaps doing people a favor, if you're just studying medicine then you're basically selling people poision and keeping the Big Pharmaceutical companies in business by keeping people sick. 2013 and we still cant figure out a cure for cancer and aids, BULL ****.

I would never marry a girl who studied medicine.

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i am NOT from Pakistan but in India i haven't seen anyone who finished medicine and doing "jhaaRoo bartan" or non medical jobs. this is another story that some of them don't make as much as others but they make enough money nevertheless, more than average people.

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^ Dude … I don’t know about Indians but most of the Pakistani gals don’t even complete their degrees as they get married in between or they end up doing some other degree which obviously takes less time to complete so their parents can marry them off in time….

I have not seen any family, any guy, any girl or their mothers demanding for a daactaaar bahu raani or damaad …. May be I am surrounded by educated people who are less shallow, fake, artificial & materialistic who does not give much importance to someone’s khoobsorti, bad soorti & big bank balance …..

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It's all the rage in the States.

Re: is it true that nowadays girls find it hard to get a rishta if they r not doctors

There is an obvious demand for female docs in the marriage scene BUT along with the demand there are also some bizarre expectations. My mom was asked to look for a girl by this guy's mom.

Requirements:
Doc
Fair
Tall
Slim
Must be US Citizen
Must be willing to live with in-laws
Must be willing to relocate to Pakistan for a minimum of two years to learn their way of life

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lol…what a bizarre demand. :cb: