Assalaomalaikum
Need some advice
Say your mother wants you to get married somewhere else and your father somewhere else.
Would it be haram if you went against your fathers wishes and marry where your mother has said? Or just morally incorrect?
Your father passionately hates these people, only really because of the country these people are from, otherwise this proposal is very good. Really good. The family is muslim, just not of the same country or maybe you can say a muslim country but they are muslims in this country. You’re marrying the guy right? He is muslim and a pretty good and decent person. He still thinks you’ll be ruining your future generations if you were to go ahead and marry him.
It’s very difficult to go against your fathers wishes but at the same time its not that easy to say no to people that seem to promise a happy and secure future.
What would be the right thing to do?
The father is not someone that can really be reasoned with and tends to put his ego above all else.
Thanks guys in advance.
