(Just general observations…)
For instance…this whole dating topic…is dating wrong according to Islam? YES! It is!
Do we still do it? YES! We do!
Is alcohol haram? YES! Do Muslims still drink? Some do!
Is pre-marital sex haram? YES! Doesnt matter if you had intentions to marry, or not. Its haram. Does it matter if you were in love? Nopesies.
Is cohabitating without a nikah haram? YES! It is! Does it matter if you are getting married tomorrow? NOPE! Prior to Nikah…haram, haram, haram!
Doing something and it being haram are two different things…yes or no? Just because majority do it, doesnt mean its legal and okay.
If you think about it, the limitations are there. We just choose to ignore for our own benefit and want someone to come and say “its okay for you guys to be together without marriage…its love and there is nothing wrong with that!”
Ummm…yes there is…
I agree with you. Just because you think something is okay for you personally, doesn’t mean you need to justify it in terms of religion. Who even said it is halal anyway? People are smart enough to know that it’s not.