…or be in love with two different people at the same time in terms of non-platonic love, (boyfriend/girlfriend stuff)? Can one have the same feelings for two individuals or it could be that one feels infatuated to somebody else when feeling deprived of love or just not satisfied enough?? What could lead to loving another person or wanting to love another person? Could it be that you are downright nostalgic and wanting to break free from the tension?
Have you ever had that feeling?
P.S. I have been feeling kinda low in the past few days. I just had some serious conversation with a friend who made me think all this. Now I feel worse…
Its a temporary feeling i guess. If you are wanting love but not getting much from your loved one you may seek and find it in someone else. However its not love, and i doubt it will last.
You can only LOVE one person at any given point in my opinion because love is not just the feeling but the commitment along with it.
well...my husband and i have talked about this in regards to previous relationships and our feelings for them now...as well as their feelings for us...
as he said some people may always have a special place in their heart for you and they/you may always care a bit what happens to them..that's not a bad thing.
hmmmm....
i don't know about loving two people. In my experience, i couldn't date two guys at the same time...once one relationship got more and more serious,....we were talking more, etc..it was harder to keep other guys going for a long time so there was just no way i could 'fall" in love with two because the process for me meant i had to focus on one...
Just to clarify...when i was doing the rishta dating circuit...i.e. meeting many many boys to talk all the auntys encouraged me not to let go of one and keep talking to others UNTIL one guy focused and made a committment...
I see their logic but it was much harder to do than it seemed....
DH: are you married? If so, for how many years? I have seen it happen, especially among married women, when they somehow feel unappreciated in the marriage Do you feel like the give and take has somehow tapered off? Do you somehow feel unloved? Who is this friend you are talking to? Is he male? Is it the friend you are starting to have feelings for?
But to answer you question, yes, it's possible, more so for men than for women to love two people at the same time, but not equally.
well i dont think you can love two at the same time...you can cheat one the one you love because of your own issues...weakness...if your loved one is treating you badly and just fears of being tied down...
my best friends girlfriend has strayed twice...but i can tell you that she loves my friend...its just that when he upsets her she deals with it incorrectly...sometimes it worries her that she might lose him...her own insecurities make her get drunk and do stupid things...she wouldnt get so upset over someone she didnt care about so the two men she cheated with were genuinely insignificant to her...so she loves her boyfriend but in troubled times does stupid things....
one friend just hates being the only one not single...hes been with his girlfriend for 4 years and he loves her but at times feel tempted to stray and has once...but he loves his girlfriend...hes just weak...
these are a couple of examples that come to mind...a lot of the time though the guy and girl love neither when they cheat...and that is why they cheat becuase they are seeking someone better or just cos they are a bit horny and their partner doesnt matter...its just lust...
so either you love neither or you love one...you cant love two people but thats my opinion...maybe someone has loved the two girls hes been with...i'd love to hear from him so it can make sense to me....
Not years after a break up with your first love!