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Agreed. Or else, Qur’an wouldn’t allow polygamy and then demand the guy to treat and love all his wives equally.
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I'm quite sure it is possible. Perhaps not so much of intense love, but you can definitely very much like two individuals and be attracted to their personalities.
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well my opinion is.......if u luv some one u can't luv anyother person.....coz ur mind ur heart just stuck with that person u luv...u always think about that person feel that person......i think when u r in luv app ki nazar kisi or ki taraf nahee uthti....but if u r sincere with ur luv .... but if anyone luv two persons at the same time it is called flurt.......
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nooooooo it's not possible.
u may be in love with 1 n u may get attracted by the other at the same time for soooooooooo many reasons.
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It is possible to have feelings for two people but not love.
You can only love one....do you know who and how? Let me tell you...
The comfortable slience...The guy/girl you are most comfortable being alone and quite, that is the person you are in love and you should be with.
Here you go another problem solved by Man with a Plan :biggthumb now start the compliments... :D
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hmmmm who is going though this situation? i guess no one except......
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Can only happen with the girl’s mouth tapped!
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agreed :k:
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I like what Amelie and Naughty By Nature said. It’s easy to confuse love with other feelings, the other person may have a special place in your heart but it’s not necessarily love. Second, I agree with NBN, the littlest things upset me and make me wanna do stupid things. Though I don’t go as far as drinking, dating other guys, or self destructing, I do some real damage to my brain by just thinking all sorts of things. THIS is one of them… :halo:
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Like what reasons? The only reason I can think of is that you grow attached to somebody else in the absense of your partner. And if that other person is your friend, communication between the two grows even deeper and there is no one to hold you back from doing so and you end up feeling that you might be falling in love with your friend. No?
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Come on baby make it hurt so good
Sometimes love does not feel like it should
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And conversely speaking, it is very much possible to have crushes than love, especially it is true for girls. You know Newton’s third law or sumzing like zat:halo: every action has a reaction. Crushes are basically the reactional phenomena of love in girls 
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Okay? What should it feel like then?
AQ.. I am not talking about crushes! 
“Crushes” don’t last very long, I am talking months and possibly years of having the same feeling for another person. Besides, you don’t get sleepless nights in crushes, that’s why they are crushes.
P.S. This doesn’t reflect my story whatsoever.
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Good grief. Will anybody define what love is? I mean for gods sake what one person describes as love is not love for anybody else. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same manner? In my mind no. But hey that doesn't stop people for thinking so. Love in my mind includes commitment. If there is no commitment its not love.
Most situations are "wow this is fun" or "or great sexual tension here" or the lastly most common for men "how the **** did i get into this" situation.
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CM, don’t get mad, get even! 
I didn’t know that love meant so many things along with commitment. I always thought love could happen anywhere, anytime, under any circumstances. Hence, I raised the question if it were possible to be in love with two people. I’ve been in love for almost six years now, he’s got my commitment he knows. Sometimes I am very sure of what I am doing, other times, I unintentionaly start reconsidering my options (which are none).
P.S. There is NO OTHER GUY that I AM IN LOVE WITH. I’ve been depressed, that’s all.
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fair enough love means commitment in your eyes...which i dont deny...but i wouldnt say someone straying and violating that commitment assumes that they stop loving the person in all cases...it just means they are weak...sometimes we hurt the ones we love and the ones we love provoke us to do things that are sometimes uncharacteristic...im not justifying anything...
And when you are 'in' love then you are happy so you will not even be tempted to look elsewhere...
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The question raised here is philosophical basically. It can happen that you love more than one at a same time but it is not a universal phenomenon. Happens to those who have fitting circumstances encouraging it. It can not be defined and summarised. Its there if its there and no logic can actually dicepher why it is there!
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heck yea u cud be loved or can love 2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10..... as many ppl u want .. aint nobody stoping ya .. but if u pull such question on this forum .. thes crack heads wud say ... NOOOOO ! BE LOYAL TO ONE AND BESIDE THIS IS HARAM n bla bla bla ... bukwaas ....
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love is wat u get after 3-4 dates with a gori or 3-4 yrs with someone desi .. so i’d say go with the gori love .. easy, simple, less time consuming.