Is it our fault ladies?

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Re: Is it our fault ladies?

@Sara516

Really???

For a very long time (back when I was single :o) I always felt that if I’m I’m not working, then bulk of chores is on me, and if I’m working, the distributions of chores should be equal…and it wasn’t just me, I knew many girls back then who felt the same way…they felt that that arrangement is fair…not becuase they want to baby their spouses.

Then again, maybe comparing chores isn’t really the best example since most of the examples seem to be about raising kids and not housework.

You have a sensible approach. The division of total tasks has to be equitable. This is slightly different, but needs a similar pragmatic approach. Anytime things get excessive there is an issue. In my city the ‘girls night out’ phenomenon has exploded and ladies seem to doing something very frequently, and I suppose once a week is fine, sometimes they have multiple events over the weekend, and the dude is left playing baby sitter most of his free time off. thankfully begum is sensible and I have not had to be in that situation but have friends who have worked 60 hour weeks and then play babysitter most of the weekend.