Re: Is it our fault ladies?
what if he is a better parent? what you wrote saying, " i do a better job and next time you should do this’ could be a fact and not a taunt, and stated so she also does what is the best thing for their child. in such situations the important part is the kid and not egos.
difficult messages have to be given in a diplomatic manner but can’t be sugarcoated or the importance may be lost. factual, friendly, forthcoming..thats my recommendation.