Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

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Re: Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

@YourLaddu

What if you have children and you dont want to disrupt their life for your own selfish needs?

Your husband is just not doing his part…so what can you do? Why not have an affair?

*I know its haram but so is half the stuff we do on here like backbiting and gossip…so for the sake of discussion please answer my questions from a non-religious perspective.

Nope. If you are not happily married, you get a divorce and set a good example by finding a suitable spouse and staying in a committed and happy relationship. Be up front. It si never right to have secret relationships like this.