Re: Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?
Two wrongs dont make a right.
Its pity that you are not using the option that Islam has provided you (divorce) instead thinking about the ways which are not considered right both by Islamic point of view and by any sane society.
Secondly, if your husband is not interested in you at all (from emotional relationship to physical relationship), what will be “limit” of your affair? Will you only flirt around? or you are looking to sleep around? I hope you know the consequences.
Best options IMHO are
- Try to figure out what has happed that your hubby has lost interest in you.
- Talk to your hubby more often on this issue.
- Look for friends and not affair.
- Get busy yourself so much so that you dont have time for him or to think about him
- If nothing above helps, get divorce and settle again.