Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

[Pataka]

Re: Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

@YourLaddu

You guys can say what you want but is it right to be deprived of attention all the time?

Divorce is not an option for me…I have young children. I do care about their upbringing - much more than myself. However, what is to become of a woman who has no one to talk to? No one for support, communication, to ask her how she is doing after a long day with the kids, etc?

Is it fair? I know its haram…I know its wrong…but Im not allowed to have four husbands so what else can I do?

You all are so quick to tell me what I am thinking is wrong but is it so wrong to want someone to just talk to?

He doesnt talk to me…he goes to work and then hangs out with his friends all evening. Or whatever he does…the point is Im not there in his mind as even a consideration when he is planning the rest of his day or weekend.

only thing i can say, karma’s a b****.

It’s not wrong for you to want to talk to someone but the way you are going about it or thinking about it is wrong.

If he doesn’t talk to you, think about you then force him to. Do something that will catch his attention. This is the man you married. He is the father of your children. Doesn’t he deserve a bit more respect than to be cheated on?

And if you really cared about your children, you would understand that talking to some other man is NOT an option.

Coming back to karma, if you chose to emotionally attach yourself to someone else, it’s not going to have a good outcome.