Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

[Mirch]

Re: Is it okay to have an affair if your spouse doesnt make you happy?

@YourLaddu

You guys can say what you want but is it right to be deprived of attention all the time?

Divorce is not an option for me…I have young children. I do care about their upbringing - much more than myself. However, what is to become of a woman who has no one to talk to? No one for support, communication, to ask her how she is doing after a long day with the kids, etc?

Is it fair? I know its haram…I know its wrong…but Im not allowed to have four husbands so what else can I do?

You all are so quick to tell me what I am thinking is wrong but is it so wrong to want someone to just talk to?

He doesnt talk to me…he goes to work and then hangs out with his friends all evening. Or whatever he does…the point is Im not there in his mind as even a consideration when he is planning the rest of his day or weekend.

You can easily take care of this issue. When he gets ready to go out to hang out with his buddies , you tag along with him and take the kids with you too. Is it not an option too ? If the answer is yes then the plan B is to you get out of house with kids to go and hang around to a mall or with your buddies before he does, if you do not have any friends and buddies make some . You can get some good ideas on how to make some good friends in some GS threads on this topic. I am sure after a few times he would get the hint heck he might get the hint the first time you do any of the above.

An your original question was , is it OK to have an affair and you wanted to keep the religion aside. I gave you the honest answer that it is not OK under any circumstances and gave to 101 reasons already.