Is it ok to divorce or get one?

diamond321 · December 11, 2009, 8:17am

Dear Sister diamond321

Given your situation, am sad and honestly pray Allah to find a way out for you. But again it is not a child game neither for you and nor of the guy.

Regardless threats he issuing, he has not guts to actually divorcing you, that is the reason all you received empty threats, hoping to make you beg for mercy which is obviously not working for them.

If you stay strong there would be only two outcome, either he has no choice but to carry out the threats, or I would not be surprise that he would bowing at your feet for reconcile with him (both are good out come for good).

No matter there are many girls waiting for Rishta, but everyone want to have Rishta in a respectable family. And that’s where they would certainly have problem.

My youngest brother is a divorcee, i can tell you it is not easy. He might have another wife, and more children but the other two he is leaving his still his blood and flesh there no way he would have comfortable life again (neither we).

May Allah make things easy for you.

Thankyou sir for your kind words