Is it normal?

[Safoora]

Re: Is it normal?

@Hmmna

I dnt knw how close OP is to this girl, but this is not the way to approach any relationship. Girls do put conditions in nikah and ask for boatload of mehar but it’s not a security. I think the OP is feeling justifiably resentful and dnt knw if he cud move on from this. If sm1 said that to me I wud politely show them the door.

SO someone here mentioned that if a girl wants security, she should take up a job and not ask for “boatload” of money- I completely agree. The way I see it is she’s putting this condition down more of as an hindrance for the guy to divorce because he’ll have to pay it, then for her financial security- so it’s for emotional security.