Is it normal?

[Hmmna]

Re: Is it normal?

@Safoora

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As for the second question- yes, she’s being insecure- although not unreasonably so. You’re also justified to be offended by her reason. But I wouldn’t question yours or hers decision to marry just yet because I feel like this is something a LOT of people go through, although not a lot would admit to it.

I dnt knw how close OP is to this girl, but this is not the way to approach any relationship. Girls do put conditions in nikah and ask for boatload of mehar but it’s not a security. I think the OP is feeling justifiably resentful and dnt knw if he cud move on from this. If sm1 said that to me I wud politely show them the door.