Ok, so here’s my story, I got nikahfied a couple of months ago. It was an arranged thing, I didn’t know the girl, but my family knew her. Khair so after the nikah, we met maybe once or twice and the extent of our interaction was me kissing her hand :=).
Khair, I had to come abroad for a couple of months and its been 3 months. We talk regularly on phone and I still have about 4-5 months before I can finally go back. The thing which has been bothering me that I miss her ALOT. I know it is cliché but I think it is seriously affecting my concentration. Everytime I lie down to sleep, or I am resting i.e. not busy in some work etc I al ALWAYS thinking about her. Looking at other couples makes me feel sad.
If I am with friends its alright, but if I am alone, I am always thinking about her. The yearning is so strong that it physically aches. I don’t know what to do. I guess this has probably something to do with my not being involved in the proper sense with any girl before. Don’t get me wrong, I have worked/studied alongsides some really cool girls and I did like one or two. But this thing is really different. Its literally like her face is there everytime I close my eyes.
Is this normal ? or am I being over-sensitive ? Any tips of how to cope with this ?
aww MA i dun think its abnormal or being over sensitive. i totally understand ur situation. uve probably not been in any relationship before and this is why this is so special to u and rightly so!!! MA ur girl is lucky. just think of thetime when finally u both will b together. after all she is ur wife u wud have her with u for ur entire life. so consider these months to be "me-time" do things that you know u wud probably not be doin after marriage becus of time and responsibilities. get busy wid ur friends and work. u talk to her regularly so this should be fine. keep urself bz in constructive work.. save money for ur marriage...
i wish u all the best for the future... i sincerely hope u continue to love her and want her this mch forever and ever.... and this is not a temporary phase :)
awww, ur sooo sweet, YES THIS IS DEFO NORMAL! (i went thru the same with my hubby!)im sure she is feeling the same, try to keep urself busy, and write/talk on phone and inshallah ur time will fly! may allah give u lots of happiness!
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