Take It easy lover boy. You asked for it urself. So u see, people are more likely to criticize than puke an advice. N e ways... 5 - 6 years is an awful long time. Especially when one's abroad. Many things change... and are destined to. If I were you, i would perhaps not bring up saeed bhai whatever's name, Atleast for a while. There are too many uncertainties right now. So just chill and relax rather than go berserk.
i agree with the first part but not the second. i don't believe in relationships where both partners can't talk to each other about anything. communication is key in a healthy and stable relationship. you should be able to talk to your gf about anything and vice versa.