Is it necessary to share everything?

I think you should tell EVERYTHING!

So what ? you might get some chappal treatment here and there… but it’s better than keeping it to yourself and boiling up from the inside.

Ye tell him everything and you will live happily ever after!

Re: Is it necessary to share everything?

i agree...except there is such a thing as TMI. You don't want to share everyyy bad experience you've had in your life; some of the greatest frienships I have (and i know this only comparable in a small degree) remain so because we continue to surprise each other.

There are essentials that they should know however; the way I'd differentiate it is if it's important to you, it should be to them as well.

Re: Is it necessary to share everything?

i simply cannot hide things.. so i tell him

but having said that, no ur spouse doesnt need to know everything, but its nice to be able to share stuff :) we have no secrets

Its is not his or her right to know everything about the partner but yes its important to share secrets with the each other. It strengthens the confidens in the relationship and also better then if your partner knows your secret through somebody else.

LOL I love it!!

P.S. U don't have to tell ur partner everything. But that doesn't mean u have an affair and hide it from him.

:omg: Good one. :smiley:

uhm, now that hubby’s working, i’ve taken well quite a few days off from worK here and there, just b/c well i LOVE the feeling of waking up a little later than usual, lounging around and cooking at a leisurely pace. that’s my dirty little secret :@:

Re: Is it necessary to share everything?

^ i am HANGING to do that

There are few things that no one knows about us "our dark secrets". I am sure there are things that we probably wont even say it out loud even in bathroom.

I do believe that our spouse has the right to know but we dont have to tell them everything (*rolleyes).

For Example; just had a discussion with a close friend recently on; that girls should not reveal their past to their husbands especially if they are from "pakistani/desi". I guess she was going towards desi mentality.

I do some what agree with her ( i know those who are reading it are probably shaking their heads and going no its wrong etc). When you are married and reality hits you, it can create ugly tangles. Be careful what comes out of your mouth especially those of you who are married.

To maintain a healthy relationship between spouses its best not to say few things.
Now you can tell your spouse a brief overview but detail information should stay with you.

Re: Is it necessary to share everything?

LOL @ NikSiks' earlier comment abt the Godiva bars! im totally with u on that one.. i hide a whole pack of snickers in the freezer and had them for a whole month without the hubs knowing anything.. teehee! and they taste DEE-LISH out of the freezer.. its like having icecream but better!