Re: is it natural ....
no actually this is called keera! (the inscet| it lives in every person, when a person see some thing beautiful, they want to look at it up close, they want to feel. This keera can also be called curiosity. Its not only with opposite sex. Person(humans) get attracted to many things and they follow the same phenomena, they try to get a close look and learn abt the that thing. eg u see a movie ad or preview, if u find it intresting you want to learn more abt it, u go and watch that movie. That keera inside makes u do it. You want to know what happened in that movie. Human! they want to know, they are in a constant search. lets not go in to human philosphy and rather stick to the topic. So, incase of opposite sex, when a personfeel attracted to the other its not love, its just a keera. 1. Most of the times they get up close learn more about each other and find out more things related to that person and they realize that they dont feel attracted to those new thing that they have learned abt the the other person.
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well well well, i m so happy to be at place where i can warn up my philosopher mind. I m glad to see so many ppl with minds who actually do the thinking not just about material and money, but the emotions.
friend ...you got it wrong .....it was not the case....:)
and i am not a man of money and material.....if i had such person..i would have run from Pakistan..and busy in slavery and licking the white Masters feet .....counting when will my company will cross 1M $ !!!!! :)
I send 1001 LANATS on such money...where i have to do slavery ..be a 3rd class citizen....have to hear racial remarks...and filthy comments....
take a sigh buddy and dont jump to conclusions so quickly....
When you live in a segregated society and then feel an attraction to someone of the opposite sex that is not love, its simply attraction. But that is a very nice starting place for love to begin, yeah? I mean heck that goes for even western culture where there is no segregation....its just a good place to start. Is it love? definitely not. Love *takes SO much more dedication, more cooperation, more knowledge of each other's wants needs and desires and the ability to compromise so that each gets what each needs and wants to the greatest extent possible. That takes a much greater and much more intimate knowledge of the other kwim? *
sorry Mama...its not allowed in islam...simple....:)
you cannot even have a second glance on a girl.....i am not saying that i am very good muslim...but what islam has forbidden for us ..it is forbidden..we like it or not...lthe compuslsion remains compulsion.....:)
secondly.....i call it ...." black mark" on the name of love ....when both try to compromise...want to know needs and desires..its means ..thats not love..thats the calculator running in your brains..calculating...the pluses and minuses of your future life.....love is above every comprimise...every ...profits and loss...and every this and that....
love means ..you have to "sacrifice for other"...if not..then its not love its something other.....:)
i call it "modern dramas" in the name of love going along some *cozy palce of a nice restaurant *...where ...boy and girl planning thier future live set up.....
girl with a smile.....how old your mother ( so that when she will eventually leave this world !!!!!)
boy with a smile....how your dad's business is going on( so that abba jee"" may give the new Cultus 2006 model in dowry ...jahaiz to her daughter)
girl with sweet smile....how many sisters you have...(as she wanted to ask all are marrried or still anyone left... so that i will be all in all in new house....)
girl.....you know...its so nice if we have a seperate house..as now ..there is no trend of joint family system....
i call it a shameless cheapness ..in the name of "love" !!!!!!!