Re: is it natural ....
What's so early about it? You say that you can't interact with her, that it is haram and immodest to get to know her better, than what do you hope to achieve with this delay?
Sahar...I have not used the word haram...but what has put restrictions on us......we have to follow that..immodest is that..on the restaurants..KFC...Macdonalds..dating..and such cheap things....
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Regarding your initial question, I feel, as others have said, that you cannot truly be in love after just one interaction/meeting. What you feel in those first meetings is desire, attraction, infatuation, a crush. You may be in love -- but not with the girl -- rather the image of her you have created in your head. It's not about her at that point, but an imagined being that fulfills all of your ideals. This is a natural thing to happen. It becomes problematic only when we refuse to get to know the real person and instead impose these selfish ideals upon them (whether that is before or after marriage).
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Did your parents meet beforte marriage to understand each other ???
Did my parents..meet each other to understand each other before marriage???
90% of all of us..on GS..did thier parents before marriage..have long hour cells talks...dating...chaepness...Saudai Bazi....profits and losses*...heating* eyes **with each **other features for hours ..while sitting in in front of each other in a restaurant......!!!!
still..Alhumdullialh..these marriages are successful....
Just to tell..you its was not my first interaction....I have not given the deatil of all the scenario...something is behind the curtains also...!!! so..its not one interactions...probably ..the interactions...of 3 or more years....!!!
and probably..you also dont know about all the deatils i have given..They are even more...but i wll not gonna give them....