Re: is it in your right to know what your going to wear
When it comes to mother i laws, I think the only solution or lets say a strategy is to keep an understanding between you and you fiance/ Hubby. Dunt make things an issue, or dunt even fight over them. Make him understand how do you feel about it. You are getting married only once. This is one in a life time thing. Mother in laws have had their turns already. They even get to boss around on their children weddings.... I think they should let DIL to use their right cuz these moments are more special to DIL than MIL.....
Try to be diplomatic and make you rfiance/ Hubby deal with his mom ( by not making it an issue) or else they wont do it. Just try to have emotional affects, without letting him know whats in your mind. This is just to get things done a smoother way and to avoid fussy and bossy MILs.