Re: is it...healthy?
yes, i know :) you always GIVE....... tears, sorrows, reasons to fight, reasons to argue, reasons to breakup.......what's more??? :biggthumb
yes, i know :) you always GIVE....... tears, sorrows, reasons to fight, reasons to argue, reasons to breakup.......what's more??? :biggthumb
How about the following very basic list...
- Security
- Respect in society
- Reasons to live with dignity
- Freedom to spend on your parents and siblings
- A right to be called mother
- A set of ears to listen to your endless and aimless nonsense
- A lifelong opportunity to justify your constant gibberish
I can go on and on and on and on...
yes, i know :) you always GIVE....... tears, sorrows, reasons to fight, reasons to argue, reasons to breakup.......what's more??? :biggthumb
And you forgot to mention those moments,
when you feel like flying
when you burst into laugh and cannot control it
when you are scared and somebody hold you tight
when somebody was there when everyone else left
when somebody never slept as he may miss the phone call from you
life comes in a pack, it have rough patches and smooth ways, if we just re-call those infinite moments while going through rough patches, if we just appreciate what others do for us, life will become much more easier.
im curious to know...what if, you are going through ur fiance/bf or gf email and come across old emails from their EX and they are still saved as "BABY" as their contact name... IS IT HEALTHY? Does it still mean theres still have something for tht person...?
It doesn't matter.
Agar uskay dil main ex basi/basa ho to usko kaisay jhankon ya nikalo gi?
Mails kia kar sakteen hain kuch bhi naheen.
Meray bahnoi kay love letter few years back main nain khud parh kar pharay hain when they wer shifting here. He didn't know. lol Jub kay unkay kai buchchay bhi ho gaay thay to kia farq parta hai.
My one cousin has her gf's love letter with her after couples of dacades and even have pictures of her. His wife can't thow and he told everything to her. Agar uski wif wo sub phar kar phaink bhi day to agar wo uskay dil main basi hai to kia wo uski wife usko nikaal saki hai? Naheen to emails say kia farq parta hai.
Nikal sako to dil say nikal phainkon ex ko phir agar ex kay kisi mail ka farq naheen paray ga.
Re: is it...healthy?
^ Lekin un cheezon ko dil se laga ke rakhne mein kya faida?
Re: is it...healthy?
Koi faida naheen laikin kuch loag jo pyaray hotay hain unki kuch yadain rakhnain main kia hota hai.
Waisay hi jaisay auron ki yadain rakhi jateen hain rishtaydaron ki ya apnay pyaron ki.
Larkion ka dil bohat chota hota hai.
Main hoti to khushi khushi parhti. Tease karti husband ko uski lufzon ko suna suna kar.
Ex mazi hoteen hain aur unkay mails say kuch naheen hota rakhnay main.
Jo ahmiaat deta hai wo janta hai faida to mail delete kar kay bhi naheen kay agar dil main basi hai to?
And you forgot to mention those moments,
when you feel like flying when you burst into laugh and cannot control it when you are scared and somebody hold you tight when somebody was there when everyone else left when somebody never slept as he may miss the phone call from you
life comes in a pack, it have rough patches and smooth ways, if we just re-call those infinite moments while going through rough patches, if we just appreciate what others do for us, life will become much more easier.
Wow zabardast.
Aaaw.....that's great. Isn't it funny how many times we get to so worked up and worried about things that you soon find out didn't require the stress? LOL. I've been through that often. You must feel so relieved. Him deleting the e-mails without a fuss shows he cares about you. Like many people, he must not sort his incoming mail folder often. I'm glad things are better. Best wishes, Pyari:)
aww thanks Red i always love ur advice!
Yes i should re-phrase it, Women always have a reason to Fight, poor men.....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
^^ lol tht is because men ALWAYS GIVE a reason for the women to fight!!! if you guys stop giving us reasons we'll stop fighting =) haha
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So u mean women in depended on men... as MEN ALWAYS GIVE...
So u mean women in depended on men... as MEN ALWAYS GIVE...
Sometimes or most of the times but there may be some reasons given by the wife to treat to her the way he treats but she don't understand may be because of not understand or may be jaan boojh kar huttharmi dikhateen hain.