is it...healthy?

It doesn't matter.

Agar uskay dil main ex basi/basa ho to usko kaisay jhankon ya nikalo gi?

Mails kia kar sakteen hain kuch bhi naheen.

Meray bahnoi kay love letter few years back main nain khud parh kar pharay hain when they wer shifting here. He didn't know. lol Jub kay unkay kai buchchay bhi ho gaay thay to kia farq parta hai.

My one cousin has her gf's love letter with her after couples of dacades and even have pictures of her. His wife can't thow and he told everything to her. Agar uski wif wo sub phar kar phaink bhi day to agar wo uskay dil main basi hai to kia wo uski wife usko nikaal saki hai? Naheen to emails say kia farq parta hai.

Nikal sako to dil say nikal phainkon ex ko phir agar ex kay kisi mail ka farq naheen paray ga.