Re: ....is it fair???
The issue is simple.. you are damned if you do it and you are damned if you don't.
Spend karo tou society says "unko dekho show mar rahay hain"..
na spend karo tou they say: "laigta hai inki amdani itni nahi hai"
and that is not even the worst part.. i would care less about what the heck society says.. its the things your own freaking relatives say that hurts the most..
waisay I do agree with Asif bhai here..