Is it a sin?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Re: Is it a sin?

**your cheapness is dripping. **

*that chaprasi may be a great man in his honesty as a human being, as a husband and all around and in earning his blue collar livelihood. *
of course, he is qualifiable for any good woman.

but you certainly do not sound like a man fit for **any **woman.

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mwap,

toughen up.
welcome to your conscience's mirror!
drama is but men's immature behaviors, actually.
you deny emotion, so therefore, you cannot even take it.
what a duality of unreasonability.
u know, something has to give.

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YES, it’s a HUGE SIN
Women should not talk to guys before marriage PERIOD.
It’s a big No No :smilestar:

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beautiful....just beautiful saying of Allah....

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still neelum ...i have a doubt...look ....if a well educated reaosanble man looks ....talks and then proposes the good and reasonable woman for marriage and then parents do all that on both sides...still this will be sin.....

infact...i am not talking about the "cheap" kinds of mohabats of Star Plus and bolly-wood block-busters....
just in a reasonable way...heart attracts the good and beautiful thing...no doubt about that...and if you want it in a respectable and legal bond of marriage ...then is this still a sin ????

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in this age...how can you avoid that..we go to colleges and universities...almost all co-ed...move in offices ...where women and men work toghether...if someone ...with full respect and dignity...likes other and proposes other to be in a respectful and long lasting bond of family.......... As choti bahna Dushwari did...then still it is considered as sin....i am very much confused about that .....have mud bodies no attraction for each other...can we put locks on the hearts....are we all not want to be with the respectable...well behaved...decent...good-looking....educated gul/guy so that rest of our life will be a good and peaceful ....can we suppress our emotions...usually in this age of nudity and nakedness...so if someone wants to be in marriage bond of his and her "pasand" ...is this still a
sin....

if yes then what is the hadees which says this.....“There is nothing better for two who love each other than marriage.” (Sahih Al-Jami`, 5200)

now ...can anybody tell me from "where" this love will develope......!!!!!!!!!!

i am very much confused .....

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i agree with you....

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Astaghfirullah!

ur definitely going to hell.

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No I am not and I can prove it with your posts. Stop hiding from truth. It is obvious that logic has nothing to do with your feminists assumptions thus you resort to either irrational emotional dribble or victimizations.

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i appreciate your wording.

best,

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are you referring to me ? not understand what i have done :D

Let the calculations begin
Let the calculations begin
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Well done...Alhamdulillaah.

When men and women reach a certain age, and if they are keen on marrying each other...then this should be supported and encouraged by the community.

People who object automatically presume something bad or illicit has happened or is bound to happen...not so.

To meet with the opposite sex on good terms with noble intent is perfectly allowed.

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if you do mean it well, then thanks picoico for your affirmation.

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but in my humble opinion...as abeera mahmood said it in her post in religion thread that legal means should be done through "proper channel" ...also as quickly as possible as islam does not allow the man and woman to meet in private...look upon each other...talking etc...thats my humble opinion...you can differ with it....but inprecvious case...many shariah rulings break...

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Lol i reached this thread late...

What i will say is there are many different type of feminists and they all have many different defintions of what they deem to be equality...

However Dushwari the only bit that you have taken is that backward feminist thinking which holds the man responsible for all of womens ills...
The fact that for everything that has happened to you you only hold responsible everyone else and dont even consider the fact that there may just be a possibility that you may possible be at fault...you refuse to blame or see fault in yourself for anything...
And the solutions you provide for everything is ridiculous...for every problem that a woman faces you suggest men have to change...well heres a suggestion for you...if you change then maybe something might work out for you...Thats a general point btw...iv learnt to accept my own faults as well as acknowledging others faults...and therefore i can change in some aspects...for you however you will never change cos you dont see any issues with yourself only with others...

You convince yourself that you are the victim when your probably the perpetrator...like i said before look at yourself and maybe life will work out better for you...

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My thoughts exactly.

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There is nothing wrong with marrying anybody you found.

However, the whole "independent feminist" garbage won't give you a successful marriage if you are planning to marry a desi.

most of these desi "indepdent feminist" desi retards end their marriage in devorce, because this "feminist" mentality is alien to desi society. I will personally never marry a " independent feminist" joker, because her stupid mentality will ruin our marriage. A females main job is to take care of the children, and if you can't do that then good luck.

So all you desi "independent feminist" jokers plan to marry goras cause there won't be alot of desi guys out there to marry your type.