Marwah Dear... being best friends does not have anything to do with this situation.... if he does not like to know or listen about ur past affairs it doesnt mean that he is an idiot.... may be he loves u so much n is possessive about u... n will not like the fact that he is 2nd or third choice ....it makes u feel bad.... nothing to do with being conservative .... And if he wants to know then obviously tell him.... in other case leave the past behind....I m sure there r other nice things about ur past that u can share ....
being best friends with your partner doesn't have anything to do with this situation, it has to do with ME and what I want. anyway, i'm not going to be yakking in my husbands ears, telling him something he doesn't want to hear. but i value honesty in a relationship and when i ask my husband, i expect him to tell me, and when he tells me, i'm sure he'll be wondering the same thing about me. and who's talking about 2nd or 3rd choice? that's not always the case.