Do you guys think its a good idea to tell your wife about any feelings you had for girls in the past. By feelings I am strictly referring to non-affairs and non-physical relationships i.e. proposals you had, or proposals you sent or the girls you liked etc.
I seem to think that it is better to be open and honest about this stuff, as it can bring more confidence and trust in the relationship.
On the other hand, does this mean you're giving out secrets that may be used against you in a fight ?
If she asks, then tell.
I don't see any reason to hide anything, because it makes you who you are, especially if you were in a long term relationship.
If the thought of being with a nother person bothers someone...they should sort this stuff out before they get married. Because afterwards, it's really silly to ask and then expect.
Btw, my husband and I talked about this before AND after we got married and we have NEVER fought about these things.
Btw 2, I take a different approach to physical affairs and "crossing the limits." but that's a different discussion :)