Hitting on married women? Does it exist? And if so, do any of you feel you have this trait?
Not according to the DSM-IV.
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I don’t think guys look at married women or flirt with them cause they always want a virgin even to LOOK at! 
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Nope. And what the hell is DSM-IV?
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The diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders. Bible of Psychology so to speak.
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That’s what my husband’s friends said about this trait during a social gathering.
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This sheer should wrap this up
Khata tu jub ho k hum hal-e-dil kisi sai kaheeen
Kissi ko chahtey rehna koi khata tu nahi
Khata: mistake :)
Khata tu jub ho k hum hal-e-dil kisi sai kaheeen Kissi ko chahtey rehna koi khata tu nahi
Khata: mistake :)
lolzzz.....I thought khata as in kisi ka khaataa kholna.
lolzzz.....I thought khata as in kisi ka khaataa kholna.
yeah its was defined just for people like u :D
Why, what do you mean by “people like you”? do you think I’m dumb? :aq:
oops u got my taunt … i have to put you in a category above dumbs now 
taraqqi mubarak ho 
thankooo thankoo , please mention
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i was watching heroes today and sylar said... and i quote
'forbidden fruit...... the best kind'
same situation. I think it boils dwn to having what you cant... sometimes
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^def. Which is what the dating game is largely about, remaining tentatively unavailable - thereby driving the other person crazy
I guess this is just a logical extention
I've heard that some men start an affair with married women because they KNOW that she's married and so they don't have to commit to her......thus making it easier for him to get what he wants. ** **And in the event that the married woman does ask for a commitment, some men will use the "marriage" as an excuse to get out of the affair if things start getting serious. "I really care about you and I feel guilty about deceiving your husband like this, bla bla bla."
Or who knows? Some men might think that a married woman might be more special than a single woman because she possessed positive qualities that made another guy want to marry her in the first place. It's like how some women might think that a guy who is already in a relationship must be special if another girl (his wife or girlfriend) has deemed him worthy enough to enter a relationship with.
Or maybe it's much simpler than we think. Maybe majority of it has to do with looks. Perhaps........it doesn't matter if she's single or married.......as long as he finds you attractive.
**And the woman can't say NO to this, right? why blame it on a Man alone? I guess limited thinking from your side. Women never use excuses? Tell that a psychologist. It's 24/7 the man, the man, the man. As if he has gun pointed at the married woman.
Your thought that woman are so innocent and everything is forced on them makes me sick!
I wonder about the people who say your posts are good and productive. Not so productive in this case. **
Sykologycal/Sykhiatrik crap!
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV)
Flirting with married women? r u guys talking about what is commonly known in the west as "COUGARS" OR "MILFS"?
I wouldnt do it...being married means being loyal and responsible and not give anyone an opening to cause trouble between you and your partner..as such, I avoid any ladies who are being overly-friendly....especially at these desi parties in the GTA....lots of desi ladies seem to find no issues with flirting with other men at these get togethers....I dont know if they think its the new "in" thing or they're trying to be overly 'modern'.
Thats one of the reasons I avoid these so-called 'friendly get-togethers'. I'd rather prefer going to a close friend's place and socializing with just 2-3 couples who are of the same mindset as us...
I think people have been watching too much of this "Unfaithful" and "Murder" b.s !
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Some married women are hot. Just not Pakistani ones.