Is it a disease to be Pakistani?

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true, and in USA thats for indian :-)

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Well do you know who gets the blame for White girls sluttiness? Paki boys, they talk of gender equality, white women should also get equal blame for sluttiness..

Today a friend of mine (an english woman) said something (our two english male friends agreed with her) which made my blood boil, that "your race (to me) are the most sexually pervertised and go abusing all white girls"...

I just said "your white girls want to start controlling their p.... (punjabi word) a bit better", "ohhh what's a p...?"

if she'd not been a woman and my mate i'd have battered her...

oh it's frutrating, n she's meant to be my mate who cuddles me every time she sees me and we go clothes shopping together (me being meterosexual n all).. I sometimes wish I wasn't such a coconut and had all paki friends, the type who are too narcissistic and involved in their own cliques to care about outsiders racism, the type who themselves hate all the gorey innit.

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The disease you suffer from isn't being Pakistani, it's being an ignorant racist.

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same here pp, ive just had to defend all britains problems from being blamed on immigrants. the issue started with an article in the paper about the prison riot by illegals awaiting deportation. colleagues suggested to 'shoot em' all plus a couple of other things! this particular time got to me so i had to defend other races. its not the immigration issue which effects me but the resentment on the asian community for it that irks me. the attitude of dislike is the same no matter what the subject. i have no answer for the overall attitude, this is something which im trying to figure out.

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Bro, that's exactly the attitude I'm referring to... I get it all the time from my so called friends and colleagues, they expect me to overlook it because they say "oh you're orite you cock, you're not like the rest of them, we don't class you like that, you're one of us, you sound like a proper northern lad, you're British.."

I use to be well chuffed when they said that but I can't brown-tongue anymore, I want to be respected for who I am and my ethnicity/religion is a big part of my identity, I'm sick of having to look down feeling ashamed and fiddling my thumbs everytime they go on about how "this country just aint the same anymore, with all them foreigners coming in and taking our jobs and living of benefits", I wish every ethnicity/religion got on with each other but I can't be nice to people chattin siht about my people, I don't always say something back out fear of offending the few sane ones..

How do they expect us to integrate and assimilate when we're not even welcome?

If was Paki labourers from Mirpur who gave this country's economy a lift (working long shifts for dirt cheap money) when they were royally shagged from after the wwii and their own people were too incompetent...

The newspapers don't help do they? Sun, Daily Express, etc... Full of so much venom... Make it out like everything is the fault of Muslims, there was something about an Iranian police officer being disloyal to the police force, they made a big deal about him being Muslim even though his religion had nothing to do with the issue, I mean he's Iranian for **** sake they're as kafir/secular as the day is long and the day is very long.. there was also something about all religious leaders in the country having a place in the house of lords or sommat in the future but in the newspaper it said "imams to oust bishops" WTH? talk about being paranoid, it's not like Imams have requested it, besides what about other non-christian leaders... I tell ya that newspaper with the crusader logo on it, daily express? is the worst of them all..

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My few words to this thread. I must say I am really shocked to hear quite a few comments that are so openly racist and very out dated (and politically inncorrect, Hee heee). We are living in a world that is so multi ethnic and multi racial and yet what is this talk about black or white?
First my response to the gentleman who said those offensive remarks about Bangladeshi and Sri Lakans. In college I had some good friends from both regions. I must say that intellectually I find Bangali people Tagore one of my favorite figures) far superior and Sri Lankans are the most kind and humanitarian people (Being mostly Buddhist) I have encountered. Now I am sure that not everyone in those region is good but good and evil exist in every regions. Also, being dark does not automatically makes you unattractive. One of my Sri Lankan friend could easily pick modeling as a profession
As for Turks (I am married to one), they are good people as well. But I am sure that not every Turk gets the trophy for being good. I am sure (and I know) all kinds of people exist in Turkey. Also I know quite a few Arabs and Iranian (good and not so great both).
I had an Indian roommate in a graduate school from South India. What a gal! We were almost like sisters. Her brians really impressed me the most. In todays world I think what really matters is what you have inside your head. Brains and personality is what makes people ultimatley attractive and sort after (my experience). After learning this I have learned to apprciate people that come in all sorts of packages.
Also being Muslim is not a lisence to heaven. I think Allah is the ultimate judge of who goes to hell. We should as Muslims strive to live a productive and Islamic oriennted life and leave the judgment to Allah.

Now a quick note on being Black. In my college day I knew this Ethiopean girl. The best looking woman I have ever seen (so far).

Beauty, intellect, wealth are all blessings from God. We must be thankful but should never make them the critera for judging people, nationalties or races or human worth.
One last thing. I am Pakistani and proud of it. But being proud is not the same as being arrogant. Everyone should be proud of themselves without putting everyone else down. Allah orders us as Muslims to be humble and kind toward others. I have nothing against Indians, Iranians, Turks, American or any other nationality because I know this to be true Islam. Also you are not going to be in my good books if you are racist, arrogant and bigot Pakistani or Muslim.
May Allah give us all courage to choose and follow Islam the right way, Amen

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that's all good and i agree with you but it's hard not to become a hater in the face of hatred...

I don't hate anyone unless they hate me, I've met a lot of Indians, Whites, Afghans and Arabs who hate Pakis for diff reasons and you end up becomin a hater coz it hurts so much, it's human nature i guess, defense mechanism, makes you feel better...

i know it's not pc but it's all fine talking about pc when you're in your comfy chairs amongst your posh upper-class social circles whereas the rest of us have to live in the real world..

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You seem to know nothing about Pakistani Men and their relationships with White Girls. The issue of sexual exploitation has nothing to do with slutiness, rather it has to do with Pakistani men looking for easy sex. This is about grown Pakistani men in their sexual prime preying on young British girls. These are not women. These are GIRLS. TEENAGERS.

White girls are seen to dispensable white trash by these hoodlums. They'll get them involved with alcohol, drugs, and sex. In the end, the Pakistani boys import a nice young Pakistani girl. Meanwhile, the poor white girl who fell in love with a man 10 years older than her is left unwanted at home and abandoned by her pakistani abuser.

Our great muslim leaders are fully aware of the problem, but they consistently refuse to get involved. There is an article on this phenomenon, and I'll paste it for you when I find it.

The reason you face such abuses in the UK is because you guys DESERVE them. Keep abusing their children and exploiting their welfare system and you'll be kicked out one day.

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Who do you think you are man? You’re a Khan not a Kahn.. As white washed as you might consider yourself you’d probably get treated the same.. :rolleyes:

I’ve heard what you mentioned before on a radio programme, it’s not specifically Pakis who do it, all gangsters do that because they need someone to do deal drugs for them and get younger generation hooked in schools and stuff… White gangs do it, Blacks do it, Hispanics do it, Sikhs do it, Afghans do it… Who gets the blame though? Solely the Pakis/South-Asians…

These gangsters don’t know nothing about Pakistaniyat or Islam and don’t care for it so why does the whole community get tarred? they are scum anyway.. and it’s not like white girls are angels, they’re so sexualised from a young age, when i was in yr 7 the girls in my class use to perv at guys their dads age, their society/parents are also to blame for bringing them up like that…

I also agree there’s problems with Desi youth, they’ve turned to gangs for belonging and support because they grew up in a society where they were rejects because of their skin/ethnicity, I know that a lot of the things they do are out of order but that happens just as much if not more with white yobs as it does with Pakis..

I don’t come from a predomiantly Asian area (I wish I did), it’s mostly Whites here and it’s Whte kids who cause trouble round here.. Pakis (with a few italianos and blacks) just stand at bus stations smoking weed all day and don’t bother no one.

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promiscuous paki.. u really need to stap being such a posterboy for American/British/Canadian/European-Born-Confused-Desi..

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pp the daily express is an absolute evil paper for dreaming up the headlines it does. ive read some crap on their front page, im suprised theve not been banned. they even disprove their own headline about two paragraphs from end! their out to incite racial and religious hatred. they publish sheer bull****. for those from north america/elsewhere daily express is a national newspaper not some fringe publication.

sara i think your missing the points mentioned. i guess the us/canada must be more vibrant and positive in them huge metropolises. pp has raised very important and true points in the background (sometimes foreground!) of uk life.

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oh it's frutrating,........I sometimes wish I wasn't such a coconut and had all paki friends...........
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I use to be well chuffed when they said that but I can't brown-tongue anymore, I want to be respected for who I am and my ethnicity/religion is a big part of my identity, I'm sick of having to look down feeling ashamed and fiddling my thumbs..............I wish every ethnicity/religion got on with each other but I can't be nice to people chattin siht about my people, I don't always say something back out fear of offending the few sane ones..
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Hey I was only agreein w/ him :p

I understand that the atmosphere in the UK might be diff than that of US/Canada..I for one have never come across this type of behavior, out-and-out discrimination and racism...but it's still no excuse to just stand there and let someone badmouth your people/culture... I think it's good that he feels guilty, at least he's not one of those pathetic ppl who think everything Islam/Muslim/Pakistani is absolutely wrong and look down on all of that

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i agree with you in the main. however i must point out that the way some of this comes at minorities sometimes what to do in certain situations is also very difficult. you might have heard about the 2001 riots in towns around northern england, the harsh approach on that issue and climate at the time was obviously wrong even as a responce to far right marches. individual action whether verbal or issueing of physical threats leads to a state of what can only be described as anti racist militancy. works wonders in short run but what about long run. work situations pose a real dilema especially when professional relationships are so important and what is said goes that lil bit further then what you thought you had educated a person/group already. this to some degree is true for nearly all workplaces in affected areas! not just where the lower working class are employed.

imagine a call center with 100 workers, 75 white, 25 asian. at break at this particular place, all the whites sit one side of canteen and the asain the other! true story. this is of course a place with no hope whatsoever!

Taliban's side of the story...
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I know bro, it seems that it's okay to say the most hateful and ignorent of things about Muslims and Islam because it is freedom of speech whereas if anyone even makes legitimate criticism of the Jewish Talmud or some crazy Christian minister it becomes anti-Semiticism ...

I agree with the comment about the Daily Express but what's the surprise there? They have a bloody Crusader for a logo, the same Crusaders who ruthlessly murdered Muslims and the Jews and Orthodox-Christians under Muslim protection for money, land and resources (what's changed there?). The newspaper is obviously proud of the evil Crusades, they have a long history of enmity and venom against Muslims and they wish to continue the tradition in whatever ways possible.

Who's going to ban them? Our goverment who themselves are terrorists and support terrorists? They're happy and probably involved in using the same tactics as Hitler used.