Is internet powerful enough to play with emotions?

[Prince_Ali]

Re: Is internet powerful enough to play with emotions?

@Pathani

Yes, it indeed is a powerful tool…
I dont mind admitting it. Perhaps others could learn from my mistake.
I was Moderator at some other Forum, Urdu…in poetry section.
Now after a long period, the owner/admin/etc. proposed and our families
began to talk and eventually plan wedding etc.
This coward, he had promissed yet another woman marriage BEFORE
even getting married with me, which I didnt know of. Im not the jealous type,
always knew he had tons of xs and girlfriends wanting to have him…but since he was engaged with me, I didnt feel insecure until the day, he told me
this girlfriend cooked meals for him and would dress up to meet him…

Now, sadly enough…it was my own choice. I was naive and trusted him with a lot of money…Business in his name, as the stupid dumb Pathani I am. aqlless Im now divorced and at peace. More succesfull than ever, thanks to Allahjee. But my pride and trust in people…is equal zero. He could had given me a choice, I would never had gone for him IF I knew his dirty niath.

So there are lots of wanna be and fraudia out there. My mum’s health was really affected by my blunder… There is no difference between a thief and such a pathetic man. But Allahjee has surely dealt with both of them…!

aww! sad indeed, thanx for sharing it with us, i have been through the similar situation as yours. I know how depressing it is.

@goodnews

1. People are falling in love not only on internet even in the real world and getting hurt:desimunda:
It depends how “aqalmand” U R. because u could figured it out if some one is saying hey I am in love with U or U R my jano:wink: That means he/she is just kidding. It doesn’t mean he/she wants to hurt any body,s feelings.
If someone never indicate you that she/he that she/she wants to make personal relation it is UR or that person’s mistake( who falls in LOVE blindly) khyr bachpany ky ishaq aysy hi hoty hain be positive. Don’t think ky jysi muhubbat mujhy os sy hy woh bhi kary.
Arry MuhhabaT nam hi azadi dyny ka hy. Pehly sirf khwateen gati thin,
Woh mera ho na ska tu main bura kion manon
Os ko haq hy woh jisy chahy osy piyar karyyyy
Ab internet ki badolat mashaAllah hamary now jwan bhi yeh gaty nazar atty hain:hehe:
As long as any thing is on the internet don,t be serious becasue every one is looking for better, as a poet says,
Hy Khub sy khub tar kahan
So if a girl found better person then you let her get him:(
No Doubt internet is a powerful weapon but still my personal opinion is no it is not enough to play with emotions. We are humaneness we need to adjust our emotions and try to understand others.
for example kisi arain ko kaha jay Arain gandy khain tu kaion ka dil totty ga kai aysy hain ju hans parin gy.(Arainon sy muazrat ky sath:wink: )Ab masla yeh hy ki jin masail pr dukh hona chahiy on pr nahi hota jin par hansna chahiy on pr ham roty hain:D
PS: Jumla awam ka meri ray sy sehmat hona zaroori nahi yeh meri zati sifati ray hy.

wah! kafi kuch seekhne ko mila, apna tajarba share karne ke liye shukriya. hmm, apko nahi lagta ke pyar boys ki kamzori hai? i mean ke boys ko phasaana ya chakma dena, on or off internet its a peice of cake?

@sweet_taboo

The first time I got the net was when I was in my early teens, it was those AOL dial up ones…

I met this Bible-belt American my age in an AOL chatroom and thought I was in love, lol…
My God the conversations we would have, we’d probably have been lynched or stoned if either of our communities read them, it was a breath of fresh air, we were so different yet so similar, we were from completely different cultures yet had the same issues… We would talk about eloping and running away when we turned 18, we’d never even seen each but we had mental images from the descriptions we gave each other, we use to talk about settling down and buying our own farm in Devon or America, lolz, we had it all planned…
I use to get goosebumps every time I heard that “door creaking sound” that happens when ever someone comes online on AOL..

Once my papi was reading Urdu news on the Jang website using my username and this other person starts sending me this big message “Hiya sexy, I’ve been thinking about you all day at school today, I couldn’t keep my hands off myself…” My God, my father was disgusted “yeh kiya bayhooda bakwaas hai?”

“Abbu koi dost hai, aisay hi mazaak kar raha hai”, he wasn’t convinced but I guess due to the awardness of it all he pretended to be.

God I was so different back then, I could never run away and envision a life like that now..

omg! i dont think this kinda incidents still take place since every individual has got his/her own pc now, so yeah, chances of this happening are low.

@Vedic_Intellect

relationships over the internet? Only losers with no social life would go for something like that.

**I disagree!
Well! what if u cant find miss right in social life, u gotta take advantage of internet then. **

@Shikra

Yeah, we got one of them on Gupshup too.

ur not referring to pir sahab, are u?