Is hitting ur wife allowed in Islam

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@Mabrook

its not a stupid question.u see if a guy does that n woman protests(say u r in pak for instance)n demands divorce so many Chamchas of the guy will jump in telling the lady ok that happened in state of anger n Hes ur husband he can do it in islam its ok for a husband he won’t b answerable to Allah for that so y make n issue n just go back to ur house.
n then there was a lady(MIL)who would say haan mard ko ghussa dilayo tu aisa tu hota he hai.is main kia bari baat hai n then she would quote this hadees where a Sahabi used to keep a long stick to scare his wife n keep her in control.When i asked the authenticity of hadees the answer was"I read it somewhere dunno where"
Now for everyones info it not adultery based hitting/fight we r talking abt.

cant ppl jst do wat they think is right in our society? mard ko ghussa dilao ge to yehi hoga? y didnt she qoute soo many ayaat and ahadeeth on ghussa beign haram in islam?

its like gettign urself trapped in the situation and not tryign to get out. y doesnt she step up and asks for her rights man. i knw its not easy but its not impossible either.