Is hitting ur wife allowed in Islam

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@kali_billi

hey every1 is screaming :bachay bachay" here but tell me one thing im really not following u guys here so help this poor little soul ok. :paci:

do u think that this kind of stuff going on around kids in their own homes is real good thing? do u really belive that ur providing ur kids the healthy environment “the paradise” when they see their ma getting beaten up all black and blue cuz their lovign pappa didtn liek the karahi gosht?

wat wud i do if u were in this place? leave ur kids to suffer liek that?

The situation in which husband beats up his wife for the food he didn’t like cooked by his wife is so zulm. Yes definately that place is not good for kids to grow up but sadly mom becomes so stuck and father don’t understand so in this case wife and kids pay the price of someones zulm

No don’t leave the kids to suffer. Be there for them. Otherwise they will become so alone. Pray to Allah to give you himmat and samajh what to do which is good for wife and husband.

@X2

it is terrible and frustrating, i have seen such cases, but consider it an azmaish where one has to make the right decision. culturally we are taught about sacrifice and compromise and the burden of that is very skewed and falls on women more. I suppose there are cases where ppl get involved talk some sense into the couple and life improves, but in cases when enough is enough, more serious decisions need to be made. They are not ideal and nither is the resulting situation indeal, but better than the status quo in such cases. it is tough on the women and kids, and many women make the sacrifice because they know how it is.

Yeah I totally agree with you.

Aisy hi logon kay liaay kahawat hai. Kuttay ki dum sau saal bhi mitti main daba kar rakho terhi hi rehti hai.

I know I saw women who sacrifce because of that.

@Decent_6Chora

You have to also see the consequences of separation. That is equally bad for kids to go through and I guess because of very reason most of the women opt to “zulm sehna” than “talaq”

Exactly.

Talaq kay dagh say buchnay ko zulm sehti rehti hai sari umr.

@kali_billi

i dont think kids r always the main reason behind all this zulm sehna and a women’s decision to stay.

ohhhhh nvm!!

Mostly kids or Love.

@Decent_6Chora

I said “most” of the time not always. I have seen most of the divorced (desi) men/women does not have kids. Most of the time its either kids or peer pressure than anything else.

Agree