I love the comment "using common sense is not in Haram" Seriously people. Do you think the person you promised to love and live with and raise children with for the rest of your life, should be hit like they are some enemy combatant I mean **** is it halal to water board your wife put her solitary etc etc! Seriously just use common sense, its probably not healthy for you to hit your wife or anyone else for that matter. If you are in a relationship where you feel the need to hit your partner, get some counseling and you obviosly are not happy with that woman, so leave her be so she can find her way. Ladies if you are in such a relationship and don't like being hit, leave the guy clearly the two of you are not suited to live together and raise a family in a civil manner.
So i assume u r married n if u ever get caught in such a situation(Godforbid)u'll leave ur partner right away?If u r not married then u can say it very easily but if u r married,living with ur partner n esp hav kids then u cannot hav any idea how hard it can b.e.g refer to notorious posts.Hav u ever thought y so many ladies keep living in such relationships.is it cause they hav no common sense?No dear its cause its no petty thing to pack ur bag leave n say ok tata bye bye.its not hollywood celebs we r talking abt but real ppl.