Is hitting ur wife allowed in Islam

well its no socil services that made it an unhealthy environment, any environment where the husband is hitting the wife or vice versa is an unhealthy environment.

calling the shurtas was not the issue, teh dynamics of this marriage were the issues.

obviously i suppose our culture prefers the second option where the wife gets beaten and takes it, or goes to her maika, husband brings her back, some peace and quiet and it happens again. marvelous place for kids to grow up.