either they were doing it playfully or those husbands love them too much otherwise a man rarely takes such assault
Gr8heera i'm sorry for reminding u of that terrible memory must b someone very close.the question i'm asking is abt someone very close to me.
Awww it's ok dear those seens made me so strong.
Okay when people ask a question like this- the first thing I think is-- USING COMMON SENSE IS NOT HARAAM!!!!
obviously she should separate (this does not need a super duper maulana to understand !)
If she's doing it for the sake of society, then that is very near committing shirk...you should not care about what other people think of you so much, that you do things FOR THEM....Allah gave her the right to divorce, so why deny that right for "society"?
Totally agree except very near committing shirk.
Also, in the time of Muhammad (s), society did not like the fact of marrying the daughter of your adopted son. But Muhammad (s) did so, because Allah Mian commanded it. Just because "society" expects something from you, does not make that an excuse for you to do something....Step out of society and set an example for the other sisters to the right thing when they are being wronged!
Agree 100% agree. Thanks for sharing that hadees. I haven't heard or read that before.
Society say kia darna. Bhar main dalo society ko. I know it's impossible for us.
Per khud ko jooton ki noak pay daily rakhna apnay saath sara sir zulm hai aur Allah kay yahan is ka hisaab dena ho ga. Agar majboor naheen to chor dena chahyay.
Gulab its easier said than done.thos who r married can understand the pressure of society very well.its a matter of honor n if that lady gets divorce even though she seems right in her fears there r relatives n close ppl who r not understanding n it might cause probs for her after she gets it.but if she goes back there r no gaurantees.
Araay Allah koi kaam mushkil naheen apnay huq kay liaay Allah pay mukammal bharosa kar kay qadam uthain daikhain Allah kia karta hai.
I can uderstand the consequences but sari zindagi jootay khanay say behtar hai kick him out from your life.
Tell your friend that ask relatives to first ask him not to touch her ever other wise she won't go back to him.
urrr jain apnay baat pay.
Abusive mahol main rehnay wali larkiaan hi abusive relation main rehti hain ya rehnay ki himmat rakhti hain. Unhon nain aisa hi daikha hota hai is liaay wo unka normal hota hai aur family bus samajhti hai her haal main husband kay saath rehna achcha hai.
Allah nain chornay per madad ka wada kia hai quran main iskay ilawa sabr kar kay saath rehnay per silay ka bhi wada kia hai. Ub aap pay munhasir hai kay kia choose karteen hain.
I would not stay. Abuse is abuse and it eats away at you until you dont have much left to offer anyone...not even your children.
If he is hitting me, he doesnt care if I hurt. If he doesnt care that I hurt, he doesnt love me. If he doesnt love me, why is he here?
Sister jis kay saath beetti hai wo bohat si baton ko bhi madd e nazar rakhti hai ya rakhna parta hai ya family rakhwati hai.
Jub tuk kisi kay saath wo sub kuch beeta na ho ya daikha na ho wo naheen samajh sakta saray situation ko.