Ok a husband can use slight physical discipline to reform wives undesirable behaviour.What about a wife?If the husband is into hitting on petty disagreements ocassionally though not everyday n at the same time hes fulfilling the basic needs of food,cloth,shelter n sex what options a wife has?.Are there any institutions in our country or the West where she can approach n help the husband control his abusiveness b4 taking the final course. Now i'm not talking abt calling police or abuse lines.that will only worsen the thing n might involve social services who seems keen to remove the kids in such cases
Ask Social services to send him to "ANGER MANAGEMENT COURSE".
Quran main hai.
"Musalman wo hai jis kay haath aur zuban say kisi doosray musalman ko nuqsan na ponhchay".
No physical abuse is not allowed in anyway in Islam except when she is doing adultry and asking to stop and after stopping bed sharing didn't work.
No not even in argument or anyway physical abuse is not allowed.
What that girl can do at that time.
Gr8 Advice ABSOLUTELY FREE From Gr8Heera for the Married girls whose husband have anger problem is.
When he is saying something and you don't like it or have different opinion and he gets mad when you tell at that time then don't say anything and keep quite.
And when he is in good mood or after sometime then tell him your opinion.
Jub mard ghussay main ho us waqt aap uski sub badamizi bardasht kar lain kuch na kahin. Baad main jub wo achchay mood main ho us waqt us mauzoo pay baat karain aur jub wo garam honay lagay to chup ho jain.
This is the way to avoid physical abuse from an angery husband. Jub aap turki ba turki jawab na nain us kay ghussay kay waqt to marnay ki naubat nahee aay gi.