how do you know? i always want to buy stuff, either for me, or family, or him, or even his family i always think of things to send. he however, doesnt. either for himself or anyone. ok so its someones bday he will, he will and can be generous at times, but i dont know why i feel guilty everytime i want to buy my own mother something, i feel like i need to explain. i shouldnt feel bad, neiother does he say no, but he does kyun leri ho, kis liye, all the time, he never has happily said yeh go buy ur mum whatever, i did say once when we were living with them, that we should also do grocery shopping, he said do it then…however he didnt openly say we should do it, i feel as if he doesnt want to and im making him. he never says to melets buy ur sis/mum/dad/bro etc this unless its a bday..
my dad has all the latest gadgets, machinery gym eqipt, he never uses it, however for his bday i wanted to get a foot spa, i know he wont use it, but when my husband said kyun leri ho, he wont use itand instead pointed to something that was £30, i felt like he was looking a get out clause for buying anything expensive,
i dont know, i could be someone who likes spending, maybe im a typcial woman, however i feel like i need to explain purchases or explain things to him, albeit he never asks for one, or even insists hes joking.
mountain out of a molehill?
is he stingy? or im wrong?
