Is education really more important than personality?

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Re: Is education really more important than personality?

@Ashy2010

Since I have seen some bad cases, I would not go for a guy less educated than me. I am a human and there are chances I can start considering myself superior than my husband or my husband would start treating me bad because of this. Asking for a graduate is not something very unreasonable I think if a girl is a graduate herself.

Ashy if your husband is more educated then you then he could have superiority complex as well. Highly educated husbands soemtimes don’t consider their wives view in any decision as they think that their wives are JAHIL. And seriously these types of husbands make life difficult for their wives. And i have seen these cases that’s why i am saying.

@Ashy2010

I hope things are as simple as that. But then why did my cousin got divorced. She was a masters degree holder and a lecturer and her husband only passed 10th grade. My cousin was very very average looking so she had rishta problem and even her younger sister married before her. My cousin ended up marrying this guy and they had fights, arguments and within few years they had divorce. She told us that the guy used to insult her over this education thing (or may be she used to insult him, only Allah knows the truth).

I have heard the inverse story few days back. A doctor girl got married with her cousin who is just matric pass and they are really happy. Girl has left her practice as she wants to start her family first.

For me education is not that important. If I like some guy who is just graduate or may be inter but he has good job and personality (Yes.. only few institutes groom you.. otherwise in universities you can find Ph.ds in very bad huliya), I will definitely say YES. Because after marriage he can complete his studies on my demand. His future should be bright and for bright future you need brains or intelligence not degrees. Education has importance in our lives but in Pakistan anyone can get degree in any private university without studying anything.

Mireage is right that highly educated people are very boring… they spend most of the time with their books, its my personal experience as my father is Engineer with masters degree and he is very boring, spends most of his time with his books.