Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
That’s a very long engagement!! Lots of things can go wrong with that long of an engagement … are you sure abt this?? You need to think this through …
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
Its now or never.
so you tell me brother what is the right way?
If you want to marry her, and if you think she is a good fit for you and your family, then do whatever you need to get her.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
why you luv her? give us valid reason.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
What is a valid reason to you?
I could love my SO because he's a billionaire but that probably wouldn't be a valid reason for you and you would call me a gold digger but I would consider it a valid reason because if my SO was a billionaire that would mean I would have financial stability and will be able to provide for our family..
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
papa aur ami jaan waley :) - although it is very cute that you feel this way towards your parents ... and you have a decent job - Your 'ami jan' did not say "you are too young" because you are 22 years old ... But because you have "bachpana" in you ... I can sense it in your writing.
Listen to your parents ...
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
khaba hath, othay rakh.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
Umm she is caring, loving, pretty, islamic, do all home chores, thats why i like n love her.
may be i am not mature enough that is why my mother is not even listening to me... ahhh leave it now.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
^where do you live?
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
^ liyari :faris: 
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
I think age is less important, where you are in your life is more important.
My number age is nearly 25, however I would suspect my actual age is probbably closer to 45 
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
Wah apna gang shang ban len ge.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
Talk to your mom again. This time take a paper and a pen with you. Tell her that you feel old enough and can't understand why your she disagree. Ask her to give you some reasons for thinking you'rec too young, be polite though. Listen carefully and write down those reasons. Don't start defending yourself just yet. Take your time and think about the reasons your mother gave you. If they seem valid, think of what would fix those problem areas and write them down. Go back to your mother and explain how you plan on overcoming your shortcomings and ask her to reconsider. If you think your mother's reasons aren't correct or she isn't assessing you right, again go back to her and explain.
PS: Don't lose you cool and be calm. Cause losing your cool now and blackmailing your mother wouldn't bode well for this girl if you do get to marry her. You don't want your mother to start hating this girl in the process.
PS: Depending on your mother, you might do the writing part in front of her or just commit everything she says to your memory. This is because some people take offence to their kids acting all smart in front of them. And a paper and a pen might seem arrogant to some. I don't know your mother and you do so act wisely.
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
and what if she's not pretty anymore or she doesn't want to cook/clean.
What will happen then?
what if she wants to work or god forbid you lose your job?
Re: Is 22 years of age too young to be engaged?
Yes its too young. Now go finish your BA.