I don’t know man, I can never imagine involving my MIL or someone else in our fight, showing your vulnerability to your inlaws is like asking for more trouble. We guys fight like every week but it’s never ever the case when I went up to them for help or complaint.
And I think that’s why never did he shout at me or was rude to me in front of others.
Do you guys agree with involving your MIL in your little fights?
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Do you guys agree with involving your MIL in your little fights?
Oh yes.
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Oh yes.
By little fights I meant when your husband pushed you on the sofa or your wife scratched your chest.
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I once poked my finger in my hubby's eye but I'd leave that story untold coz he wants to write it in his blog so no spoilers.
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Ahemm, in our marriage, we dont call them fights. 
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astaghfirullah…
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totally agree. our UFC remain behind close doors.
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lol @ TLK. ha ha ha.
if you live with your inlaws, and your speakign with each other (you and your spouse), would your inlaws notice? would say anything? would you say anything if they asked you about it?
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Eeek I always involve my in-laws. lol. I know not the right thing to do but I don't see any other way to to torture him or make him angry :(..
Wait got the question wrong.. that what I posted above and yes there are times we get o ur parents involved when things seem to get out of hands
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NEVER!!
We had my mother involved once between nikkah and rukhsati time frame where there was a huge misunderstanding between two of us and we were on the verge of breaking the marriage.. I was in the US, my mother in Pakistah, husband in Pakistan too and I called her and cried my eyes out.. she called him and got the story from him 
She was a lil bit involved in that incident but at the end we made up once we both calmed down and clarified the situation (like any otehr normal couple 
) and also believe it was the telephone misunderstanding.. it wouldnt have been bad if we were together!
but our usual once in a blue moon argument, we donot involve anyone!! My mom is staying with us during my pregnancy and if she notices that we are not talking,s he will ask me once and I just say that its nothing big.. and that’s it! she stays out of it!!! good thing she doesnt insist to know!!
parents in law.. NEVER.. I am very much against involving other people in your affairs.. husband and wife make up sooner than later but parents never forget what was said between the two and they may hold a grudge against the son in law or daughter in law.. respect and earn respect!
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totally agree. our UFC remain behind close doors.
winner kon hota hai?
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No,
we had one a couple of weeks ago and didn't speak to each other for days while still in touch with each other's families. They didn't even know we weren't talking.
I guess it'll depend on the 'intensity' of the fight, and it's never gotten that bad. But if that's ever the case, I'll end up involving other people. He's really private and I'm the exact opposite.
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I once poked my finger in my hubby's eye but I'd leave that story untold coz he wants to write it in his blog so no spoilers.
That sounds like a fun story. I wanna hear!
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NO, never my MIL and FIL live with us and they never heard any loud voice from us, even though we sometimes fight like animals:p ,and that anger last upto weeks. once during fight i left the house and I was like I'm not gonna come back no matter what but then after sometime I calmed down and came back, the next morning my MIL asked me where did u go last night I said just went to asda's to get something.:P
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No I would never involve my parents or my in laws in our arguments.
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And I think that's why never did he shout at me or was rude to me in front of others.
I never involved my inlaws in our fights/arguments.
the few times my parents intervened, it was his decision to speak to them.
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I would never invlove my in laws in our little fights. Not even my parents.
I don't know man, I can never imagine involving my MIL or someone else in our fight, showing your vulnerability to your inlaws is like asking for more trouble. We guys fight like every week but it's never ever the case when I went up to them for help or complaint.
And I think that's why never did he shout at me or was rude to me in front of others.
Do you guys agree with involving your MIL in your little fights?
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My parents OR his parents...neither one has any place in the middle of our fights
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definitely not my ILs! i just wouldnt be comfortable with that ...it would be like showing my weaknesses to them
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I do think though that sometimes MILs can create just the right amount of drama to make things interesting in a boring day.
So maybe