Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
I've never involved either my mil or mum in our fights. its none of their beeswax and we are adult enough to sort out any arguments by ourselves. After all, marriage is about going through ups and downs together.
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
I don't know man, I can never imagine involving my MIL or someone else in our fight, showing your vulnerability to your inlaws is like asking for more trouble. We guys fight like every week but it's never ever the case when I went up to them for help or complaint.
And I think that's why never did he shout at me or was rude to me in front of others.
Do you guys agree with involving your MIL in your little fights?
I think a couple should be mature enough to discuss things and sort things out on their own...the more people you involve whether its ur family or the in laws the more of a mess it becomes and to top it off tomorrow the two of u will be perfectly fine with each other but ur fam's wil never forget
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
On principle we never involve anyone, and our fights hardly last an hour or two any way so...
But I don't think that involving my in laws will make things worse, in fact I know they will be much help in bringing a third party perspective or even telling him to listen to me.
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
Never! Like a poster said in the thread, they would remember it even if we forgot..
I also learned from SIL and Bro... Any little thing my SIL would be unhappy with or petty fight,my SIL would tell my parents and uncles and aunts and it was the straw that broke the camels back.. Men cannot trust a woman who can't keep her mouth shut for the trivial things and can bad mouth her husband to anyone
Respect is by not sharing details of your spouse.. especially negative things
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
I'd never ever involve anyone.
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
Disagreement's between spouses are no one's business except their own. Anyone too weak to handle them without "moral support" is too immature to be in a relationship in the first place.
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No need to involve parents but Rikshey wala is a better option, albeit.
One friend told his Quite old Mamu and Mami were comming back after shopping from Itwar bazar ( sunday bazaar) they started fight in Riksha and mumu sahab got furious. Rikshey wala was listening and praying that he should reach destination asap.
When they reached home Mumu sahab gave divorce to mami infront Rikshey wala. Rikshey wala guy then had to shift Aalo, piyaz, Tamatar inside their home 
They were already grand parents and the bone of contention was that mami did not serve proper breakfast in the morning. 
Our home is built on reverse engineering, 
MIL , FIL complain to DIL about their spouse 
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
winner kon hota hai?
aap wo baat keyun pochtey hain, jo bataney k qabil nahi hai :)
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
aap wo baat keyun pochtey hain, jo bataney k qabil nahi hai :)
i ko winner ka pata chal giya hai ab.
Re: Involving your Inlaws in you two's fight
Petty fights and arguments are common in each couple. When you involve families in your arguments, you will eventually forget and move on but your family will remember and hold it against your spouse forever. Not a good way to be in a relationship.