zobia
March 15, 2012, 5:52am
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Re: Involved with a Gori
I met this Gori while I was jogging at the park, we didn’t know each other and she began to keep pace with me, she initiated some small talk about the weather (it was cloudy), I continued the conversation and it got a bit flirty. She’s a year younger then me and went to a christian high-school and goes to a private christian collage. After the jog we stopped and chatted for 5-10mins, conversation was light, humored and very respectful, she gave me her number. It’s been a while since I was involved in any relationship (no one after my stint in Singapore), I don’t think I’ll find a rishta through traditional means given my tumultuous past. But I’m having conflicting thoughts, I am a Muslim, I pray 5 times a day, and I worship one god, is it wrong to see this girl (I don’t plan to do anything sexual), just to see if you would be a suitable partner? The girl is well educated and has a year to go until the completion of her engineering degree, she was fit and it was obvious she took care of herself, she was raised with religion and morals and choose to go to a religious school over a public university and stays with her parents (most girls who live on campus are bound to put out), She wasn’t bothered by the fact I’m a Muslim (She asked about where I was from and asked if I was Muslim). I’m confused, I’m having conflicting thoughts and its not fun being alone (having had quite a few relationships, you begin to miss female company when all your buddies are a bore and you can only play so much air hockey), what your take guys/gals?
wow…u got to know all this about her in just one meet…which cant even be called as a meet. you are thinking like a women…khailoon he khailoon mian shadi bhi kerli, buchay bhi paida ker leya…lol
if there is a connection between u, i am sure she will consider converting.
ps. dude, whether u r planning for getting physical or not, its not really your call. its just not permissiable in Islam, christan in fact in any religion.