Just an update for you buddy, It's acceptable to marry a non Muslim when they're no available Muslims in your area, its not necessarily a good thing, but I won't go as far as calling it bad, but I think one thing is fosho that your cousins are what we desis call "cool kids",
LOL There were quite a lot of available Muslim girls but the dudes went abroad, fell in love with the lady and married her. I think they did it for the UK visa thingy. But, after all that they're happy and mA for them :D
Asian + Caucasian kids look more Asian than white, at least the one i've come across. My bari ma is Cambodian.. sadly they dont have any kids.. wouldve loved me some half cambodian cousins..
I disagree. It depends on the angle LOL
seriously you have no idea how much I've confused people around me nobody knows what nationality I am and its even more confusing when I'm speaking in different languages. Same goes with my sister.
Mind you we have different builds, she's tall and very skinny but asian/western face (freckles etc).
I'm hour glass, average height and asian/western.
How in the name of god is it wrong for the husband to ask the girl to convert?!?!? And it seems like you'll be getting hitched by a gora so you can have cute kids? You are one superficial girl, please go educate yourself a bit.
The only thing I can think of is that you think of yourself as educated but you are a paindu. Don't go all backwards with your talk. You can't force someone to convert. My cousin who married the Hindu Indian, stayed Hindu for 5 years of their marriage then converted to Islam.
How in the name of god is it wrong for the husband to ask the girl to convert?!?!? And it seems like you'll be getting hitched by a gora so you can have cute kids? You are one superficial girl, please go educate yourself a bit.
Actually I'm marrying a Pakistani and I know my kids will be cute no matter who I have kids with because they will be mine.
You should be the one who should be getting educated. What is with your attitude?
The only thing I can think of is that you think of yourself as educated but you are a paindu. Don't go all backwards with your talk. You can't force someone to convert. My cousin who married the Hindu Indian, stayed Hindu for 5 years of their marriage then converted to Islam.
I said ask? but seems like your ass has gone a bit to forward and think marrying outside ones religion is good, its not, its not bad either, but from your posts about making beautiful babies, you seem to think we should think of the benefit of superficiality rather than religion, and the use of the word paindu doesn't offend me seeing as your stuck being a second class citizen wiping the ass of your Arab kings, keep it up ameeraf.
Actually I'm marrying a Pakistani and I know my kids will be cute no matter who I have kids with because they will be mine.
You should be the one who should be getting educated. What is with your attitude?
It's the internet, You may perceive my attitude as vulgar but I don't mean to be so, its hard to show emotions over the interwebs so you probably got the wrong view, I guess it was offensive hearing that your not allowed to ask a girl to convert, not forcing but asking.
I said ask? but seems like your ass has gone a bit to forward and think marrying outside ones religion is good, its not, its not bad either, but from your posts about making beautiful babies, you seem to think we should think of the benefit of superficiality rather than religion, and the use of the word paindu doesn't offend me seeing as your stuck being a second class citizen wiping the ass of your Arab kings, keep it up ameeraf.
Dude, there's something wrong with you. I think you're being all *****y because you haven't got the answer you wanted and you're just trying to shoot down the people. Who are you to say marrying outside your religion is bad? You're a new Muslim, okay. I read your other post about you doing drugs before being a proper Muslim. Don't act all high and mighty just because you think you're educated in 'Canada'. I didn't say anything about beautiful babies but everyone does want beautiful babies. All babies are beautiful in the eye of their parents so that doesn't mean we only want beautiful babies. Looks like the word paindu does offend you if you have to resort to low class words.
I met this Gori while I was jogging at the park, we didn't know each other and she began to keep pace with me, she initiated some small talk about the weather (it was cloudy), I continued the conversation and it got a bit flirty. She's a year younger then me and went to a christian high-school and goes to a private christian collage. After the jog we stopped and chatted for 5-10mins, conversation was light, humored and very respectful, she gave me her number. It's been a while since I was involved in any relationship (no one after my stint in Singapore), I don't think I'll find a rishta through traditional means given my tumultuous past. But I'm having conflicting thoughts, I am a Muslim, I pray 5 times a day, and I worship one god, is it wrong to see this girl (I don't plan to do anything sexual), just to see if you would be a suitable partner? The girl is well educated and has a year to go until the completion of her engineering degree, she was fit and it was obvious she took care of herself, she was raised with religion and morals and choose to go to a religious school over a public university and stays with her parents (most girls who live on campus are bound to put out), She wasn't bothered by the fact I'm a Muslim (She asked about where I was from and asked if I was Muslim). I'm confused, I'm having conflicting thoughts and its not fun being alone (having had quite a few relationships, you begin to miss female company when all your buddies are a bore and you can only play so much air hockey), what your take guys/gals?
wow...u got to know all this about her in just one meet...which cant even be called as a meet. you are thinking like a women...khailoon he khailoon mian shadi bhi kerli, buchay bhi paida ker leya...lol
if there is a connection between u, i am sure she will consider converting.
ps. dude, whether u r planning for getting physical or not, its not really your call. its just not permissiable in Islam, christan in fact in any religion.
It's the internet, You may perceive my attitude as vulgar but I don't mean to be so, its hard to show emotions over the interwebs so you probably got the wrong view, I guess it was offensive hearing that your not allowed to ask a girl to convert, not forcing but asking.
Well think of it this way
If the person converted because you asked wouldn't be following Islam because she truly believed in it but because her husband believes in it. So she wouldn't be a true believer which in my opinion is offensive to those who believe in a particular religion
ya its like this Italian guy telling me .. oh I dont believe in God.. but ill become Muslim.. since its the only way u can marry me.. wth... Islam/religion is no joke!
Canadaa I think you shouldn't proceed with this relationship as there are plenty of muslim girls that would be more suitable, if its a wife is what your looking for. First of all it is recommended islamically to look within your own, than look to the people of the book. There are far to many problems in interracial/interfaith marriages and I have always found that one partner usually has to give up ones identity to be accepted. In the west it is easier to give up your islamic/cultural roots and start to be accepted in a "gora" culture. It is better to avoid this whole circumstance as the shaytaan will no doubt play with your mind/morals. Allhumdulillah you are trying to keep up your 5 salats, and trying to please Allah. Perhaps it would be more suitable for you to find someone that also wants to be stronger in imaan and together you can build on that. Obviously the choice is yours, forgive me if I have said anything to upset you or hurt you. I am only giving you advice as a sister in Islam. May Allah guide you and make you amongst the mushrakeen.