but there are people who can pick up on any insecurity in a person and use it to manipulate that person. Im not saying its all men who do this, or that there are even verymany who do this...but for someone who gets caught in that type of person's trap..its very likely.
What do you think is the likelihood of a confident, secure woman getting caught up with someone like this?
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Ppl started having serious arguments on it..
Still no sign of the “PMs” PCG was talking about in the initial thread..
Veeeeerrryyyy clever PCG!!
Umm.. Not really, like i said a man jus has to say a few sweet words and the women that have no confidence wud fall to his knees in seconds.
So you don't believe that woman should strive to have high self-esteem? Or do you believe that a woman with high self-esteem would still fall prey to a "few sweet words"?
I am advocating educating women so that they are confident and have a strong sense of self-worth. Are you disagreeing with that concept?
Sorry.. what does immaturity hav do to with low self esteem? Thats nothing to do with imature and mature, Its to do with how the girl feels about herself.
Maturity is what provides one with the ability to know oneself. A girl can feel any which way but a mature girl will know "why" she is feeling that way. For example: A few sweet words will give butterflies to any girl but it will be the one that is mature and knows herself that will engage her brain before she takes action on those feelings. The yet to mature young lady will likely fall for the romance and melt. She will not care to consider the consequences.
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Ok a girl with no confidence and a girl with confidence is two different things.
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they are all the same.
Come on.
there are two kind of girls, hot ones and not so hot ones.
What do you think is the likelihood of a confident, secure woman getting caught up with someone like this?
Less likely.
This little self-esteem, low self worth and lack of self confidence...it all starts when they're young because as they get older and older, it gets harder to break out of it.
they are all the same. Come on.
there are two kind of girls, hot ones and not so hot ones.
so jimmy.....which of the two kinds would you go after to manipulate?
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they both are easy to manipulate. all you got to know is what girl want to hear.
Less likely. This little self-esteem, low self worth and lack of self confidence...it all starts when they're young because as they get older and older, it gets harder to break out of it.
So if this theory proves true then it's not the men that drive women to be a certain way. It's the women that set themselves up for a fall because they fail to develop their own personalities and characters to the degree of strength that they should.
Furthermore, if it all starts when they are young then as parents and future parents we should spend some time attempting to build our daughter's self-esteem and self-worth.
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they both are easy to manipulate. all you got to know is what girl want to hear.
so as long as you say the right words, smile the right smile, look at her in just the right way you can get what you want.
right?
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Anyway, PCG, are you gonna post your PM then?
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Yes Pakistani men do use it to control . But it is not only limited to women but anyone they can . Sorry to say but we are not really that civilized society . Most of us are purhay likhay jahil .
so as long as you say the right words, smile the right smile, look at her in just the right way you can get what you want. right?
you are not lawyer by profession?
you always make sure what other persons statement is.
Answer to your questionis YES.
But what I usually want from women, you don't know it. Plz dont try to guess.
Some time its plain leave me alone. Some time turning them down politely.
When I asked:
so as long as you say the right words, smile the right smile, look at her in just the right way you can get what you want. right?
Jimmy replied:
.......... Answer to your questionis YES.
So ladies.....here you have it.
If the guys know that they can get what they want if they do all the right stuff and you don't want to be in a situation where you are trapped and can't muster the strength to get out......you should know what to do.
The matter is clear; no ambiguities, no smoke and mirrors and certainly no unfair manipulation on anyone's part.
You alone are responsible for your situation; whether it goes great or turns sour.
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you should practice divorce law.
you are not lawyer by profession? you always make sure what other persons statement is.
Answer to your questionis YES.
But what I usually want from women, you don't know it. Plz dont try to guess.
Some time its plain leave me alone. Some time turning them down politely.
Jimmy,
I am not a lawyer.
I like to be sure that I understand what the other person is saying so that I don't go forward with assumptions. Sometimes there are language barriers and other times there are other mitigating circumstances (e.g. emotions) that cloud an argument. I just like things to be clear so nobody feels that they have been wrongly interpretted.
And don't worry, I am not gonna even try to guess what you want from women. It really is the least of my concerns.
Cheers!
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sweet heart
You approach to wards ppl is usually less then accurate.
You get ticked very quickly by some token words.
why?
you will make some serious progress there.
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now you've lost me....I think I've been pretty calm.
where did I get ticked?
and your reference to progress is also lost on me......