Re: Intimidation
Yes! But women are smart tho, and if they turn that insecurity into bitter revenge, they can screw over any *man.
Abit of jee jee and abit of lovey dovey, You got your man where you want, When their *down on their knees. Keep them there and keep them down forever!
i *hate men*
''For every b*tch out there, there is a man that made her like that''
MB chillax yo :k:
Re: Intimidation
Some men do and some are normal where they dont need to...its called communication and respect for one another.
Yes! But women are smart tho, and if they turn that insecurity into bitter revenge, they can screw over any *man. Abit of jee jee and abit of lovey dovey, You got your man where you want, When their *down on their knees. Keep them there and keep them down forever!
Cant agree anymore
The sad part really is that Pakistani women have such low self-esteem that they do get intimidated.
When most of them are considered nothing more than mere entertainment....can u really blame them for not having self esteem?
When most of them are considered nothing more than mere entertainment....
sara stop it.
U know that's not the truth.
Im trying
Thanks!
Exactly! agree’d
SARA i respectfully disagree with this statement of urs :k:
When most of them are considered nothing more than mere entertainment....can u really blame them for not having self esteem?
Agreed.
Everyone having a bad hair day today?
''For every b*tch out there, there is a man that made her like that''
When most of them are considered nothing more than mere entertainment....can u really blame them for not having self esteem?
People need to stop passing the buck and take responsibility for their own situations.
Men don't make women into anything......women allow themselves to be manipulated.
It's very easy to direct blame outwards but ultimately we are responsible for what goes on inside our hearts and minds.
If you are being treated badly or have been in the past, where will you get by being bitter and passing that negativity forward?
If you have low self-esteem, and have enough sense to know that you do, then no matter what got you there, isn't it your own responsibility to get yourself out?
Everyone having a bad hair day today?
People need to stop passing the buck and take responsibility for their own situations. Men don't make women into anything......women allow themselves to be manipulated. It's very easy to direct blame outwards but ultimately we are responsible for what goes on inside our hearts and minds.
If you are being treated badly or have been in the past, where will you get by being bitter and passing that negativity forward?
If you have low self-esteem, and have enough sense to know that you do, then no matter what got you there, isn't it your own responsibility to get yourself out?
You make it sound like it's easier than boiling water. It is very difficult for a woman to get herself out of a mentally draining situation.
Re: Intimidation
^ Yeah but, men target the women with low self esteem, and giv them sweet compliments, once they have them where they want them, they start to abuse that, and make them feel soooo crap abt themselves, Then the woman is stuck because she thinks *no one *will ever want her.
Then she lives with this man who abuses her everday, and she basically thinks shes worthless.
Thats sounds like an assumption, but then again, your opinion :k:
Ok jus for you kaun, Not *all *men are like that.
You make it sound like it's easier than boiling water. It is very difficult for a woman to get herself out of a mentally draining situation.
I certainly didn't say that it was easy. You have decided that I am suggesting that.
I am simply saying that it is not fair to blame a situation entirely on someone else, much less an entire gender, when you have more than a 50% share in the cause.
^ Yeah but, men target the women with low self esteem, and giv them sweet compliments, once they have them where they want them, they start to abuse that, and make them feel soooo crap abt themselves, Then the woman is stuck because she thinks *no one *will ever want her. Then she lives with this man who abuses her everday, and she basically thinks shes worthless.
I am quite certain that men do not have an agenda to go out there and find a woman with low self-esteem so that they can manipulate them.
Have you ever considered that it's the women who should work on their self-image and make sure that they are stable and confident before heading out to market? And if the women are too immature to recognize this about themselves then maybe the parents should ensure that their daughters have a strong sense of self-worth before allowing them out.
Save for a very limited (and twisted for that matter) portion of the population I'm sure that nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone, be they male or female, simply to make them feel crap about themselves or to abuse them.
And if the woman stays in an abusive relationship because she thinks she is worthless then isn't she making the choice herself?
Nowhere in all of this am I saying that getting out of an abusive relationship is easy. It is difficult. And it is even more difficult to get out of one that is emotionally abusive; since there is little to no physical evidence of the abuse to motivate you. But this does not mean that the woman has no responsibility in it.
^ Yeah but, men target the women with low self esteem, and giv them sweet compliments, once they have them where they want them, they start to abuse that, and make them feel soooo crap abt themselves, Then the woman is stuck because she thinks *no one *will ever want her. Then she lives with this man who abuses her everday, and she basically thinks shes worthless.
I have to agree iwth this. For the girls who have very little self-worth or low self-esteem.... this can happen.....maybe not intentionally. but there are people who can pick up on any insecurity in a person and use it to manipulate that person. Im not saying its all men who do this, or that there are even verymany who do this...but for someone who gets caught in that type of person's trap..its very likely.
Its easier said than done to drag yourself out of this mentality, especially when its the one you've been having for more than half your life.
When most of them are considered nothing more than mere entertainment....can u really blame them for not having self esteem?
Look at that thread. I just had to light a match and the entertainment was ablaze. I did not create it. It is already there :D
I have to agree iwth this. For the girls who have very little self-worth or low self-esteem.... this can happen.
Its easier said than done to drag yourself out of this mentality, especially when its the one you've been having for more than half your life.
Granted it is easier said than done. Nothing of value comes easily in this world.
Misery loves company Sara and often times participating and encouraging this sort of "blame the guy" mentality distracts the victims from what they really should be focused on: themselves.
It requires very little effort to place blame on someone else and it's quite convenient too because it keeps us from having to take a long hard look at ourselves.
Truth of the matter is that the sooner one takes that critical look at onself the sooner you manage to claw your way back to ground zero.
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Have you ever considered that it's the women who should work on their self-image and make sure that they are stable and confident before heading out to market?
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Umm.. Not really, like i said a man jus has to say a few sweet words and the women that have no confidence wud fall to his knees in seconds.
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And if the women are too immature to recognize this about themselves then maybe the parents should ensure that their daughters have a strong sense of self-worth before allowing them out.
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Sorry.. what does immaturity hav do to with low self esteem? Thats nothing to do with imature and mature, Its to do with how the girl feels about herself.
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Save for a very limited (and twisted for that matter) portion of the population I'm sure that nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone, be they male or female, simply to make them feel crap about themselves or to abuse them.
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True.. but then again its hard to get out of these abusive relationships because you think you have no self worth, So sumtimes the male wud shower u with compliments the next hes abusing you again.
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And if the woman stays in an abusive relationship because she thinks she is worthless then isn't she making the choice herself?
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Its hard to get out of one of them relationships.* Very *hard indeed.