Re: Interview Debacles (Fiascos, Problems & Mind Games)
zobia,
i was myself very upset at this point, but so was my dear Mother. really disappointed in my ill-prepared ness or sequence of events to a point that even the prof said, looking at her looking at me, that it is alright, it so happens, sometimes.
now, since it was cold, i did not want my Mother to be in the car for any long duration, so i asked him, is there a lobby area in the blg where my Mom can wait for me, i would like her to come inside than be in the cold for an hr.
he politely said, yes, sure. not only that, but seeing and remembering that i was worried about my Mom possibly falling on sleet, he extended his arm for my Mom to hold on to him while they walked the sleet.
my eyes welled up from humbleness of this Interviewer, who managed to smile as well on all of this.
finally, i went in the room where there other professors were waiting or me. i apologized for being late. this prof. introduced me and my qualification.
we had an hour long interview. and i impressed them.
on my way out, he thanked my Mother for being with me that day as well.
he advised, knowing that i am in education as well, that less time on computer or reading. and somehow, he said this to me very seriously, that they will definitely contact me and later on they did offer the position.
but when i wrote him a thank you note, i said, sorry, i cannot join not because of what happened on my interview day but because, i would like to come to that university with more work experience.
and he appreciated that.
wished me well and said, whenever you would like to reconsider, you should apply at that university again.
quiet an experience.
but the good thing is i was very genuine and the committee and this kind and patient prof. saw to it that i was not deliberately dong all this. it was just not the right day for me to go for an interview.
Dushwari