Your scenario is on a public forum where you’re asking for POV’s. If you posted in a private blog where you were looking for comments that would soothe you, it would be different.
I disagree with your view. Completely. You don’t like it. Wonderful.
But that is my view. I don’t post things people want to hear, I post what I feel.
I am really not sure why this is so surprising for you…this is common sense.