Re: Interracial relationship
Wow, what is wrong with the two of you!
You can tell me that I shouldn’t feel what I feel (because somehow you have the authority over what anyone is ought to feel), when I respectfully disagree with your view, you challenge me for what I am doing to fight such an issue. How childish is that?
Seriously, if you can’t take someone disagreeing with you, why don’t you just show some respect to the other person’s experience in the first place AND state your opinion? Plenty of people did exactly that. Do you see me having an issue with them?
Your post is so beyond arrogant that I cannot fathom it. It is what the nastiest of people do and seeing your often common sensical posts around this forum, I am having difficulty understanding how someone who seems to be so level-headed can be so nasty.
And just to prove further how wrong your questioning of my experience and judgment is, let me tell you this:
There was not a single soul on the road. We were on the sidewalk. In each incidence, there was no other car on the road. I have been in the exact same situation before with either a girlfriend or a brown guy friend and nothing of this sort has EVER happened before. We were either walking or sitting down in the parkette.
Like I mentioned before too, I live in a very diverse city where interracial couples is NO big deal. I could not have imagined this could happen in my city. It was too shallow a thing to do, and it happened too often for me to see it in any positive light. Honking when done for reasons other than safety is rarely considered positive (unless it is around sports teams and the reasons are VERY clear).
The reason I initiated this thread is to share the experience with people who are/have been in interracial relationships because this is my first one ever. I did not expect anything like this. I wanted to see if this is “to be expected”
Does my shock and feeling disturbed by it make a bit more sense now?