Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

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Re: Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

@Bobby1

I coach people to not make assumptions so why not ask the guy if his parents object where do things stand and if he says that parents consent is a condition then tell him to contact you when they have sorted it out. Personally weak men make me want to vomit. Would you really want to be with such a weak man who cant stand up to his mother. How is he going to protect you all your life?

Agreed. Not sure why the moms and sisters have so much control? I’m not saying to completely dismiss your moms/sisters opinion - but if they have no valid reason to object, I don’t get it. Plus, it’s not like he’s 19 or 20. He’s 28 - yet unable to contribute to making the biggest decision of his life. Very odd. At this point, I think if his parents object - it’s the end of it. I don’t see him putting up a fight.. and quite frankly, I am not sure I am comfortable getting married in a household where I have to ‘struggle’ to be accepted. Thanks, Bobby!