Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

[Bobby1]

Re: Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

@fitoor

Isn’t this a majority of desi men? Desi men for the most part are close to family and mothers. It’s good and bad in that they respect their mothers which is good because she is a woman and the female figure in his life growing up but then, it will always be difficult for women his own age to live up to that image of how his mother was. She is the first woman he fell in love with as a child. The family’s opinion matters a lot. No one wants to risk everything on someone their family doesn’t approve of completely. Especially when divorce is a bit more common now then it was decades ago.

Being close and not yet weaned are two different things, a part of being an adult is to make your own decision. mamas boys let their dear mommies inflict abuse on the DILs. I know about a lot of abuse. Actually lil boys who are mommies puppets divorce their wives on mommies command. I know of this guy who liked his wife and his mommy put the holy book on his head and made him swear on mommies life to divorce the girl. Both my brother and I married against families wishes, his daughter became a physician before she turned 23 and his son is an executive for Bank Of America…so marriages without mommies blessings work also. I would be a lot more committed to a woman I chose rather than the one forced down my throat. Almost all my nephews are marrying girls of their choice and mommies don’t have any say in that,